(grammatical gender note: I am using the pronoun they in the singular so as to be gender neutral. The person who is the object of the pronoun can be transgender, gender queer, neutral gender, gender-fluid, male, female, etc. So here I use they and their so that any gender can apply)
Some people equate sex workers with slave and claim that they can never be empowered. Many people use the issue of sex trafficking as an umbrella to include a very different (and diverse) population who choose sex work, and equate them with actual slavery. People who claim that all sex workers are victims and can never be empowered, contribute to the oppression of sex workers. If sex workers say they are empowered, shouldn’t this be heard, and not immediately disqualified? Sex workers all over the world are speaking out about their complex experiences and claiming empowerment. The experience of the sex worker, just like society, is complicated, but perhaps some things about the sex worker experience can be broken down into different aspects of multi-faceted spectrum.
An empowered sex worker is a sexual educator, a cultural advocate, and a healer.
An empowered sex worker educates their clients on safer sex practices, thereby preventing disease transmission. They also facilitates safe sexual play, be it in the realm of BDSM or beyond, educating their clients in safe, consensual enactments of their fantasies. An empowered sex worker heals by providing safe physical, emotional and spiritual exploration. By making the space for education and healing, an empowered sex worker advocates for societal change for the better. An empowered sex worker brings great gifts not just to their own communities, but to the greater society.
We must support this.
Sex work has been around since the beginning of human history. It has existed regardless of what governmental system has been in place, and it has existed in many forms. Historically, regardless of whether, sex workers were honored and given a place in the spiritual temples, or if they were banished to the streets or outskirts of town, they have existed. When they were honored and respected, their work happened safely – and safety was therefore secured for the the worker and for the client, and for the client and for the community. When they were banished, and stigmatized, everyone was endangered. Without safe physical and emotional space, they operated at higher risks of all sorts.
An oppressed and disempowered sex worker, though strong, and fighting, is put at great risk. This risk extends to the clients, and to the entire community. When a sex worker has to hide, or live in fear, risky behavior happens. When a sex worker is not respected, violence against them is permitted. This harms the sex worker, the client, and the community at large.
We must prevent this.
This is a very black and white way of examining the circumstances around sex work, and we do not live in black and white world. The sex work experience is not easily lumped into one place along this spectrum of empowerment. Many forces fail to recognize this, many forces refuse to recognize this. Some sex work is tolerated when convenient, and most sex work is not tolerated as is convenient. This means that sex work happens on some sort of complicated spectrum between the empowered sex worker and the disempowered sex worker.
This is definitely the case in the United States.
The United States is the site for the leaders in capitalism. Here democracy has been equated with capitalism, and as capitalism enables greed and numerous other human evils, not everyone wins in a capitalist system. In fact, most people do not win. In some ways the few who are on top have it best. Those on top lack the stress of making ends meet, and money gives them access to the best resources: the best living conditions, the best education, the best health-care, the best environments, and so on.
Meanwhile, those on the bottom are deprived of these resources, in many instances, these resources are taken directly away from them. This harms them tremendously: the removal of access to resources makes room for disease in all forms. The limitation of resources is a social injustice, and perpetuates social disease.
Those responsible for the limitation of resources need to be held accountable for their crimes.
Democracy are supposed to be a mechanism for social justice. However, when the so-called democratic government is bought by the capitalist corporations, government enables social and economic stratification.
Fortunately in the US and in the world, capitalism is not the only force in play. Community organizing and activism has allowed for voices other than the corporations to be be heard, and people have demanded their rights be upheld.
However, it is a battle, and because it continues to be a battle between the rich corporations and the (economically) poor communities, and because the government is mostly controlled by the rich corporations, government in many ways fails society.
Now let us return to what has been called the oldest capitalist profession in the world: sex work. In the capitalist society sex is often traded for money which allows access to resources, or sex is traded for resources.
Capitalism is problematic. Capitalism often involves the exploitations of people and natural resources. In sex work, the worker can often be exploited, especially in the spirit of the capitalist society. Sex work can also be an individual using their own body, mind and spirit in a consensual manner with a client. When the sex worker is empowered, this capitalist endeavor happens without the exploitation of people and resources, and in fact can be an educational and healing contribution to society.
In the meantime, the sex worker gains access to resources. This can be great for the individual sex worker.
This alone does not solve society’s problems, but it also does not harm society.
What happens if a sex worker uses their access to privilege to aid the social justice movement? What happens when an artist who cannot get sufficient funding in the United States to do their work, becomes a sex worker to fund their work? What happens when a marginalized person uses sex work as a means of improving their lives when social services have failed them?
What happens when someone, who has been oppressed, finds a means of liberation from their oppression? It is possible that they take some time to enjoy the fact that they have been liberated (as they should)! It can also mean that their connection to the oppression fuels them to take action against oppression. Here is where an empowered sex worker (much like an empowered former user, an empowered person of color, an empowered person with disability, etc, etc, etc) becomes a threat to those systems of oppression.
Could this factor potentially contribute to the ongoing stigmatization, and criminalization of sex workers?
YES.
So perhaps, we can all work to at least change our own personal roles in this oppression, and check our judgements, check our attitudes, and open up to the possibility that this sex worker may have something of extreme value to contribute: to our communities, to society, and to our understanding of the world.