Archive for August, 2007

The Mission Smelled like Poop

….and those brand new sidewalks were sparkling clean as M and I both caught each other looking underneath our shoes….

“It sure is empty here tonight,” says M, as she hands supplies to one of the two people standing there.

“Yeah, the Man has been through,” says the man she is talking too.

“Huh. We were wondering. Because it usually is pretty hopping around here.”

A woman who was working asked if we had any narcan, which we don’t carry on us. A she put the supplies in her bag, she calmly explained that it would have really helped her last night when her friend was overdosing. I said I was sorry about that, I have lost many friends that way.

And she said she was sorry about my friends.

Respect of Gender Identity

Prison is not the only place where gender identity is not respected, and therefore not the only place where people with different gender identities are put at risk for harm.   Another area is rehab.  I had a good friend who during their transition relapsed and then went through various rehab systems.   I remember one of the last times that I saw him, him complaining about the fact that he was placed with the wrong gender.

I cannot speak for him, and I cannot speak for the trans experience.  However, I can’t help but to think that a systematic disrespect of  something so important as gender identity can only rehab much harder than it already is.

I also wonder if without this added stress, if this friend might have been more likely not to relapse again and overdose and die.

For me, this was one of those years in which my community experienced a huge amount of loss, and a good portion of those deaths were people who were trans.   I can’t help but wonder if our system for housing, health-care and more were more tolerant and respectful, that some of these untimely deaths might not have happened.

Overall, the biggest change that needs to happen is overall societal and cultural respect and tolerance.  Numerous public health studies depict the reasons why one person is more likely to be at risk than another person, and the reasons why someone is more at risk than someone else point to factors beyond education and access to health-care.  It is about the stress that is built into daily existence within a judgemental society – specifically a racist, classist, etc society.

Perhaps the two go hand in hand.   If  both systematic and societal tolerance were in place, many people’s lives would be very different.   And if in situations such as rehab and prison, someone’s gender identity were to be respected, then perhaps there would be less sexual assault, and less overdose deaths.

These people are doing good work around this issue:

Transgender, Gender Variant & Intersex Justice Project

http://www.tgijp.org/

The Problem of being Trans in Prison

The last few times I have done outreach in the Polk, or the Tenderloin, the numbers of people out have drastically dwindled since even a few months ago.  So, yes, that has been the case for every neighborhood I do outreach in, and I have complained about it repeatedly here.  And I ask, almost despairingly,” How can gentrification be fought?”  Especially since most of the damage had been done before we even noticed…

But, why is it especially upsetting when I don’t see people out in the Polk and Tenderloin?   Because many of the people in those  neighborhoods who are street-based sex workers are trans.  And when they aren’t there, I worry that it is because they have been swept off to prison.   And as is the case in many areas of the system, their gender is often not respected, and many people are separated into areas of other people that are not their gender.  For a pre-op trans woman, this means that she is put with males, and unfortunately, this often puts them at risk for sexual assault.

Please check out the following article about a case of one heroic trans-woman who sued the California prison system for the repeated sexual assault that was allowed to happen.

Former Transgender Inmate Sues State to Stop Sexual Abuse

And on Related Topics…

Check out my friend’s blog post on a monthly magazined for and by sex workers in India:

Indian sex worker magazine brings community together