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Bits and Pieces…

The hint of  San Francisco cold held the melancholy of the evening.  And tonight, despite the nearly cloudless sky, N and I were reminded of the approaching rainy season, as we noted that it is indeed autumn.

(Who needs to be exact about equinoxes?)

The first people we talked to tonight were a couple.  The woman was taking care of the man, who had experienced some hard times in 850 Bryant and was not doing well.

“Did you know Dorothy? She used to live around here but OD’d a couple of weeks ago.”

I did not but remembered the woman I had talked to a couple of weeks back…Did she?

Yes.

Hours later, another woman who was working in the streets sang, “Life is hard out in the streets.  Can you imagine what it is like?”

Lessons in Harm Reduction

“I hate it when people assume,” said the young man in the wheelchair as N. and I filled a bag with supplies.

“Yeah, he was nosy, huh?” said N, referring to the man in the suit who was trying to see what was going into the bag.

“Yeah.  He doesn’t know what’s going on. I’m going to give these out to my friends - can’t have too much out here.”

N. put the bag into the pocket on the backseat of the wheelchair, and we finished up our night.

Assumptions, not only can be wrong, but also cause an incredible amount of harm.   The act of assuming can be incredibly disrespectful.  And how can one person make assumptions on such little information?  And pass judgement without taking into account the full story?   Harmful policies are created this way.

We have much to learn from the man passing out supplies to his friends…

The Mission Smelled like Poop

….and those brand new sidewalks were sparkling clean as M and I both caught each other looking underneath our shoes….

“It sure is empty here tonight,” says M, as she hands supplies to one of the two people standing there.

“Yeah, the Man has been through,” says the man she is talking too.

“Huh. We were wondering. Because it usually is pretty hopping around here.”

A woman who was working asked if we had any narcan, which we don’t carry on us. A she put the supplies in her bag, she calmly explained that it would have really helped her last night when her friend was overdosing. I said I was sorry about that, I have lost many friends that way.

And she said she was sorry about my friends.

Respect of Gender Identity

Prison is not the only place where gender identity is not respected, and therefore not the only place where people with different gender identities are put at risk for harm.   Another area is rehab.  I had a good friend who during their transition relapsed and then went through various rehab systems.   I remember one of the last times that I saw him, him complaining about the fact that he was placed with the wrong gender.

I cannot speak for him, and I cannot speak for the trans experience.  However, I can’t help but to think that a systematic disrespect of  something so important as gender identity can only rehab much harder than it already is.

I also wonder if without this added stress, if this friend might have been more likely not to relapse again and overdose and die.

For me, this was one of those years in which my community experienced a huge amount of loss, and a good portion of those deaths were people who were trans.   I can’t help but wonder if our system for housing, health-care and more were more tolerant and respectful, that some of these untimely deaths might not have happened.

Overall, the biggest change that needs to happen is overall societal and cultural respect and tolerance.  Numerous public health studies depict the reasons why one person is more likely to be at risk than another person, and the reasons why someone is more at risk than someone else point to factors beyond education and access to health-care.  It is about the stress that is built into daily existence within a judgemental society - specifically a racist, classist, etc society.

Perhaps the two go hand in hand.   If  both systematic and societal tolerance were in place, many people’s lives would be very different.   And if in situations such as rehab and prison, someone’s gender identity were to be respected, then perhaps there would be less sexual assault, and less overdose deaths.

These people are doing good work around this issue:

Transgender, Gender Variant & Intersex Justice Project

http://www.tgijp.org/

The Problem of being Trans in Prison

The last few times I have done outreach in the Polk, or the Tenderloin, the numbers of people out have drastically dwindled since even a few months ago.  So, yes, that has been the case for every neighborhood I do outreach in, and I have complained about it repeatedly here.  And I ask, almost despairingly,” How can gentrification be fought?”  Especially since most of the damage had been done before we even noticed…

But, why is it especially upsetting when I don’t see people out in the Polk and Tenderloin?   Because many of the people in those  neighborhoods who are street-based sex workers are trans.  And when they aren’t there, I worry that it is because they have been swept off to prison.   And as is the case in many areas of the system, their gender is often not respected, and many people are separated into areas of other people that are not their gender.  For a pre-op trans woman, this means that she is put with males, and unfortunately, this often puts them at risk for sexual assault.

Please check out the following article about a case of one heroic trans-woman who sued the California prison system for the repeated sexual assault that was allowed to happen.

Former Transgender Inmate Sues State to Stop Sexual Abuse

And on Related Topics…

Check out my friend’s blog post on a monthly magazined for and by sex workers in India:

Indian sex worker magazine brings community together

Valencia Street Nausea

I used to love looking at the window displays at Leather Tongue Video.  The art exhibited there often had this lovely taste of dark whimsy which my senses just gobbled right up… For some reason, I never expected Leather Tongue to disappear from the background that whizzed by as I rode home on my bicycle.  And yet it is with grim acceptance that I now walk or ride past the expensive and boring clothing boutique which is now in its place.

Yesterday, my friend Marko asks me if I want the Gentrification  update…..Well no, but of course….

“Have you noticed what is missing from Valencia Street?”

And then he informs me that was used to be Casa del Libro,  a lefty, spanish language bookstore, is now under construction.

They lost their commercial lease because it the rent recently skyrocketed.

So, who is going to afford the lease now?  What is it going to be?

A gay fitness center.

Then Marko goes on to fill me in on the other depressing news:

ATA, the Artists Television Access, which has been known for its cheap film classes and accessible equipment rentals, and support of local filmmakers, just had their rent raised about 600 bucks.

Who else?

Yoruba, the tiny Santeria store on 21st and Valencia is also about to have their rent raised.

Their eviction touches on the angry humor inside that wonders what happens to people who mess with the Santeria store.

It brings some tiny fragment of consolation to daydream about that.

My friend Naomi refuses to take Valencia Street if she can help  it.  Harvey sings loudly to the customers at the new fancy restaurants on 18th Street, “Go Back to the Marina!” And Marko and I repeatedly ask ourselves, “How can we stop this?”

Gentrification is such a long process that many of us do not even notice is happening until it is too late.  People sit on real estate for decades until the time is right to evict all the tenants and double, triple the rent….

And the current wave of Gentrification is happening all over the country.   I have heard people complaining about it all over the country.  And I wonder, where are these people with money coming from?  Who is it that is filling all these expensive, ugly condos?  And where are all the people in my neighborhood who can no longer afford it here going to go?   And then once they have gone to wherever it is, how long will it before they have made that place interesting enough that gentrifiers will want to  kick them out and move in there?

Anti-Prostitution Pledge increases risk for HIV transmission? No…REALLY?!

It seems obvious, right? A US Policy requiring NGO’s that receive funding to fight HIV/AIDS to sign a pledge that they will not support prostitution in fact endangers entire communities. Eh, what happens when people lose access to safer sex supplies?

Some researchers at the Center for Public Health and Human Rights spell it out for us:

Article Examines US Policy Requiring Groups That Receive HIV/AIDS

America’s ‘anti-prostitution pledge’ hampering HIV control

And if you haven’t already seen it, let me once again direct you to the following 13 minute documentary put out earlier this year by the Sex Workers Project:

Documentary: Taking the Pledge

In Georgia: “Justifiable” Police shooting of a Client

Remember boys and girls and genderqueers, IF you engage in the act of prostitution, in this case, as a client, you have the right to be shot and killed by police officers.

Apparently it is okay, since they found drugs on him afterwards….

Prostitution sting shooting justifiable, GBI finds

Tomorrow: Paul Reuben’s Day

This event celebrates American culture some of its most ridiculous - in honor of the arrest of Paul Reubens for jacking off in a porn theater.  I will be performing, and the proceeds are going to some of my favorite organizations:  St. James Infirmary and the Center for Sex and Culture:

Big Adventure:
12 noon- Vesuvio 255 Columbus @ Broadway

Playhouse Benefit Party:
Playhouse tickets are $10-20, sliding scale at the door; $7-20 with Wee
Wear
4-6pm - The Stud 399 9th @Harrison

Big Adventure! For the fifth anniversary celebration of sexual
expression and Pee-wee Herman, the –Wee March will be revisiting
highlights of PRDs’ past and taking the city by spoogey storm.

Porn and Tequila!  PRD culminates in the Playhouse Party with zany
performances, naughty burlesque, demented DJs and dishy clips form The
Very Porn Paul Reubens was watching when he got arrested! Featuring the
Reubens-esque Costume Contest, Miss Yvonne Beauty Pageant and Amazing
Larry’s Trivia Contest! Contest details are on the website. Prizes
sponsored by Good Vibrations and Costumes on Haight.   Spotlighting a
star studded cavalcade of local, ludicrous and libidinous talent
including: Mary Van Note, KrOB and Sherilyn Connelly.

The Playhouse Party is a benefit for The St. James Infirmary
(www.stjamesinfirmary.org) and the Center for Sex and Culture
( www.sexandculture.org)

Paul Reubens’ Day is on Saturday, July 28th, 2007 starting at 12pm. The
route is free, but bring money for drinks/snacks/strippers. Playhouse
tickets are $10-20, sliding scale at the door; $7-20 with Wee Wear.

Burlesque:
Lady Monster - http://www.ladymonster.com/
Ginger Viargo - http://www.swop-usa.org/Virago.php

Comedy:
Mary Van Note -http://www.maryvannote.com

Wendy Vinaigrette is a performer, activist, and clown. When she is not
making fun of the absurdity of American culture, she is busy playing
clarinet with the Brass Liberation Orchestra, doing harm reduction
street outreach for the St. James Infirmary, and ranting about
Gentrification on her blog ( www.wendyvinaigrette.wordpress.com).

Spokenword (all erotica)
Horehound StillPoint  - http://www.suspectthoughts.com/stillpoint.html
Charlie Anders - http://www.charlieanders.com/
Sherilyn Connelly  - http://www.sfgoth.com/~sherilyn/

Raina Bird -Raina Bird was born in a commune run by a fat, bald guy
with nine wives who said he was the living incarnation of God. She is
currently writing a book about the experience. She is very fond of her
pet rat, heavily tattooed, and doesn’t get out much.

Decorations by Dorian Katz

Contests!Contests!Contests!

Prizes donated by Good Vibrations and Costumes on Haight
The Official PRD bowtie and tequila shoe shop!
Costumes on Haight

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